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发表于 2007-1-19 19:15:54
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来自:河南南阳
人的一生有许多这样的时刻:当你朝思暮想某人的时刻,你恨不得把他从梦境中拉出来,与他真正的相拥于现实中.
当一扇幸福之门关闭了,另一扇幸福之门便会开启.可多数时候,我们却因过久地凝望那扇关闭的门,而忽略了为我们敞开的新的幸福之门.
美丽的容貌拥有一定的欺骗性,诱人的财富具有一定的易逝性;去追寻那个让你笑逐颜开的人吧,因为一个微笑足以使暗淡的日子豁然明朗.去追寻那个让你心悦诚服的人吧.
做你想做的梦,去你想去的地方,做你想做的人,因为你只有一次生命和一次机会去做你想做的一切.
最幸福的人并不一定拥有最美好的一切,他们只是最充分的利用和珍惜了他们所拥有的一切.
爱,起于微笑,浓于亲吻,逝于流泪.
当你呱呱落地之时,你哭着,周围的人都笑着.真诚地面对生活,那样,当你走到生命尽头之时,才会是你笑着,周围的人哭着.
"I love you" does not always have the same meaning, and this, too, should tell us something about the elusive nature of love. The first time it is always a surprise, an invasion, an aggressive act, but once said," I love you" can only be repeated. It is unthinkable that it should not be said again, and again, and again. When one has not said it for a while, this may itself precipitate a crisis.(" Now why haven't you said that in all of these months ") On the other hand," I love you" can also serve as a threat ("Don't push me on this; you might lose me."),emotional blackmail( I've said it, now you have to respond in kind!"), a warning (" It's only because I love you that I'm willing to put up with this "), an apology ( "I could not possibly have meant what I have said to you, to you of all people." ). It can be an instrument -more effective than the loudest noise - to interrupt a dull or painful conversation. It can be a cry, a plea, a verbal flag ( "Pay attention to me!" ) or it can be an excuse ( " It's only because I love you---" ). It can be a disguise ( " I love you," he whispered, looking awkwardy askance at the open door). It can be an attack ( "How can you do this to me?" ) or even an end ( " So that's that. With regrets, good- bye!" ). If this single phrase has so many meanings, how varied and variable must be the emotion. |
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